I've worn glasses since 4th grade! Hi!
Whenever I do eye makeup in general my rule is usually the bigger the better. Something about wearing eye makeup behind glasses makes it seem less intense. Recently I've been doing a lot of animal makeup and I try to spread the makeup all the way around my eyes and up on the brow bone, sometimes above my eyebrow. That way you can lead someone's eye with your makeup lines instead of the lines created on your face by your glasses.
I've also been curious about doing crazy makeup around my glasses that adds to the shape of my glasses. Like a crazy yellow border on my skin of my glasses, or something like that. That's just an idea bouncing in my head though :-)
check out this girl she does some fantastic make up tutorials..Dont know about if she does glasses though!http://www.youtube.com/user/kandeejohnson
you can still wear glasses and wear make-up. I have the same problem, I hate contacts so I have t find a way around it. Sorry the images are so huge, but here is some styles I've done. It's hard to see but the second photo I have spirals going down the side of my face in blue and white dots. Also I used glow in the dark paint around my eyes and white paint for the black lights in the first photo, made it extra funky ;)