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Permalink Reply by funky mag! on January 19, 2011 at 9:42am

We love you here in Westmoreland County, come hoop with us!  I know it is a 45-60 minute drive but if you ever want to join us, you are soooo welcome!  You are welcome to crash at my house even though I have to leave Friday mornings for work at 5:40...ha.

 

I feel lonely for no reason, too.  My hormones get all messed up during my monthly friend and I get real self esteem issues when I do (although to be honest, hooping has REALLY helped that for me).  Sometimes I feel like I get left out or forgotten and then feel really bad about myself for it, but over the years I've learned/tried to overcome it.  I remember - hey, i have a beautiful marriage! i shouldn't be lonely.  and I acknowledge how much fun I actually am having and try not to let what my friends are doing/where they are going get me down. I feel like I've had a lot of friends who have just suddenly up and left our relationship (with no reason that I know of) and I feel like I must be uninteresting/boring or annoying.  This has sadly happened with some people I had once considered good friends, and so a lot of times I put a slight guard up with people I meet until I think I may be able to let it down.  Ugh what crap!

 

I try to see the good in everything and try to learn life lessons through my friendships.  It can be hard at first but eventually it becomes clear.  Just remember, there will always be someone who loves you, wants to hang out with you, wants to see you everyday.  Some days it may feel hard to believe, but please remember that it is true!

 

<3 you girl.

 

 

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Permalink Reply by Lori aka Glitterhoopz on January 19, 2011 at 11:39pm

How to be Alone

 

Check out this video.  I found it helpful when I was feeling alone.  Beautiful, really...

 

and you're in a great community.  someone is always here for you.  i have my moments, especially around this time of year.  so glad to see the wonderful, loving, supportive responses from everyone. <3

 

also, here's a song that I sing whenever I'm feeling alone, it's from the movie Hook.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ebiuCeT8ODk

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