I've prolly made a hundred hoops.  Sold a few, but mostly just give them away.  I made my own LED(prodmod) and my own fire hoop.  I don't want to write a depressing journal enrty, but at the same time I just feel like getting this out there.  I'll be 53 this summer and it feels like I've just been plodding along on my little dirt hoop path. Almost six years now.   My problem may be that I am a quiet ,awkward person.  I know there are hoopers nearby, even in this town.  None close to my age apparently.  Age not a problem U say?  It is when ur awkward and quiet.  For 2 years I went to the YMCA 4-7 days a week.  Carrying armloads of hoops in and out.  People smile, I smile.  We exchange hellos.  They may comment that I'm good at hooping.  I say "Hey, I have plenty here, try it.  It's fun.  I know U can do it!"  Not one person has ever tried.  I feel flawed.  I try to be cool and out there, but awkward and quiet is what I am. 

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Comment by Shasta Lee on January 25, 2013 at 10:37pm

I am 19 and quiet and awkward. I let my hoop help me get over that though. 

life is so so short, so try and muster up some confidence and meet up with other hoopers ! even if it is awkward, you at least tried! and what if it isn't ? :)


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Comment by Caroline Krueger on January 26, 2013 at 10:14am
Have you considered performing? I'm shy too but I joined a circus group and it has really pushed me out of my comfort zone, caused me to grow, be more confident, meet new people and develop new skills. The leader of our troupe is in his mid fifties and some of the most talented and amazing people that I really admire are in their forties. I myself am 30 and used to feel old and awkward compared to younger hoopers. Putting myself out there and forcing myself to do things that didn't come easily at first has completely altered the limitations I used to place on myself. The flow arts community is one of the warmest and most non judgemental collections of people you will find anywhere, so I really encourage you to face your fears and engage a connection with nearby spinners regardless of your age. You might be surprised to find it doesn't matter as much as you think it does. Much love!

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Comment by Karen Weitz on January 26, 2013 at 11:25am

You're in Muncie IN, right? I live a few hours from you, in Ohio. I went to a workshop in Noblesville last month, and I can tell you that those Indy hoopers are as welcoming as can be! I drove up by myself, and left with several new friends. :) There's another workshop coming up that I plan to attend. We could meet for lunch before and go together if you'd like.  Here's the event link: https://www.facebook.com/events/144679629019732/

Comment by Laura on January 27, 2013 at 3:53am

shy people are awesome. ive gotta tell ya, im the complete opposite of quiet but i can relate to the awkwardness hahaha. its cool though, everrryybody has their flaws!! dont try to be anything but yourself and if you are shy and awkward embrace it! haha stay positive, smile, and dont stop h00pin

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