Comment by Miss Anastasia Arts on December 5, 2010 at 9:57am

Awww I'm so sorry you are having such a horrible time. I really hope things get better.

Comment by Sara Emm on December 5, 2010 at 10:12am

As much as it seem to suck, there is always a bright side to everything. In the end things will always work out, even if you can't see it yet. Think positive and keep that pretty face smiling, things will start looking better. <3

Comment by Miss Texas on December 5, 2010 at 10:26am

I don't know if it's at all possible but could you take the bus instead? I know public transportation isn't that great in the states but it has worked for me before. I went through a situation like that too of not having a car and desparately needing one but I found other ways. Maybe you could find a friend or family member who you could give a little gas money and they would take you. Or someone who is going to that gym at the same time that you are. Call them and see if there's anything they could do for you, I'm sure they would at least TRY to help you. You never know. Just meditate on it awhile and I'm sure doors will start opening for you.

Comment by Rachel Bond on December 5, 2010 at 10:48am

awe, so sorry! Have you read the forum on the chip in the license card? And don't blame hooping for all these misfortunes, I would call someone very lucky when they make their hobby their day job. The thing you need to realize is Life is a journey, and these tough times make you really appreciate the great times. Also it's good to vent, it's makes you set out your priorities in life, and helps you get back on track to happiness. Good luck and take care

Comment by Casey B. on December 5, 2010 at 10:54am

I'm so sorry, lady. For some reason, it always seems like when things go wrong - EVERYTHING goes wrong. But sometimes you just have to look at the positive - it can only go up from here. Take care and keep your head up.

Comment by Trish on December 5, 2010 at 11:10am

I'm very sorry you're going through such a hard time. Sometimes bad things happen in our life to make us appreciate the good things that are right around the corner. Trust me, there are some good things coming your way! Hang in there and try the best you can do think and do things that feel positive for you. I really hope things start getting better soon.

Comment by GlowBunny on December 5, 2010 at 11:30am

Telling myself, "I can get through this, I won't let this bring me down because things will get better" usually works for me and it always gets better after some time :)

Comment by Caroleeena of Circles of Joy on December 5, 2010 at 11:51am

I wish I had $2,000.00. I would just send it to you. This is a temporary situation. I know it might not feel that way right now but it will get better. Do you have anyone you could ask for help? It is okay to reach out, okay to receive. When we ask for help, we're giving someone else the opportunity to step up and to be kind.

Consider having a benefit to raise the money! Have a performance-based party. You could hoop. You could ask friends to come and sing or read poetry or play music or tell jokes or whatever. Have it in someone's back yard. Charge $10 or so to attend. And have a silent raffle for some prizes, like a hoop! We did this once to help a friend go to Yoga school and we raised $700. It's a fun way to let people help you.

You could also raffle off a hoop online or do an etsy store.

Finally, about the ticket, see if you can talk to the district attorney. Sometimes they will drop the charges if you show that you've done something about the situation or offer to do a community service or something instead.

I am sending you positive well wishes and love girl. You hang in there.

Comment by WhirlWind* on December 5, 2010 at 12:30pm

Wow... thank you to everyone. I'm crying like a little baby right now. I could use whatever positive vibes I can get. I just needed to vent & I'm glad I did. I just made a two-tone hoop by request. All black vinyl & 1 in dark blue gaff tape along the inside. No spirals... my friend Chris B. is buying it as xmas gift to himself & he wants 2 more for his cousins. He told me to make the as "boyish" as possible. Success... Mad love to all you hoop-headz out there. xoxo

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